Iris Strauss is an FeSi (ESFJ) married to Andrew, a TiNe (INTP). She shares her experience of growing and thriving in relationship with her TiNe husband.
The Refuge (INTP forum)
“The Secret Lives of INTPs” by Anna Moss
(As well as all of Moss’ stuff, especially the Post-Apocalyptic Survival stories. She’s an INTP herself.)