As with any romantic relationship, the first 6 months of being involved with the TiNe will be really exciting. During this time, your differences will be downplayed and you will both probably try to mirror each other a lot to feel connected. I’m an FeSi, and the first 6 months of dating my (now husband) TiNe was thrilling.
When it comes to getting things done, Si can make it seem like you have a never-ending to-do list spanning infinity in your mind. When one item gets completed, 5 more take its place. It can be tough for Si types to feel like they’ve accomplished something, even if they were busy all day long.
Stop the madness! Here's how to make Si work for you.
Iris Strauss is an FeSi (ESFJ) married to Andrew, a TiNe (INTP). She shares her experience of growing and thriving in relationship with her TiNe husband.